Parenting Rite of Passage

Non-hierarchical parenting focused on connection, presence, and mutual respect

attachment Parenting, Connection, Emotional Presence

Becoming a parent is one of the most profound rites of passage, but it is also one of the most challenging. In a world where traditional wisdom is often lost, many young people feel uninformed. New couples and parents feel isolated and unsure of how to navigate the complexities of raising children. Over the last few decades, our society has become deeply segregated. Divorce rates wreaked havoc on our childhoods and we saw a decrease in the healthy community dynamics needed to truly support children. This is shifting—it has to for us to thrive as humans.

Parenting choices—from discipline styles and vaccine schedules to sleep training and alternative medicine—can be overwhelming and divisive. There are so many decisions that carry long-term implications, and it's easy to feel like you're facing them alone. Or maybe you don’t even know what to discuss with your new partner as you become more committed. This is a place to start. These mentoring sessions are designed to bridge the gap, offering guidance from an elder who has walked the path, helping you navigate the hidden challenges that come with raising a child.

We’re not doing things the way the previous generations did. Many of the approaches and practices we grew up with are no longer seen as the most effective or healthy for today’s families. This journey brings up questions and concerns around everything from sensory awareness and schooling impacts to birth and feeding options. It can be hard to talk about these topics openly without feeling judged or misunderstood. That’s why it’s important to have a safe space where you can explore these issues without fear of judgment. As your mentor, I’ll help facilitate honest, open conversations, allowing you to build your unique parenting approach grounded in respect, mindfulness, and a deep connection with your current or future children.

Parenting used to be a communal experience, supported by the wisdom of a village of elders, and collaborative child-rearing. In some cultures it still is! We can cultivate that here. Although right now that support is often absent, you do not need to face this journey alone. We will re-establish what the village can be: a peaceful, supportive space where you are guided by experience and compassion, not by outdated rules or rigid structures. Together, we’ll explore a new paradigm of parenting—one that goes beyond reward and punishment, focusing on connection, mutual respect, and understanding. Let me walk alongside you as you embrace the transformative experience of parenthood, creating a family dynamic that nurtures growth and emotional well-being for all.